Jati Diri
“semoga berguna bagi yang sedang merenungi nasibnya..”
Menjadi unik dan *hanya kita* itu sulit. Menjadi seseorang yang bisa menyalurkan jiwanya, ketika dia menghasilkan karya dan orang lain melihatnya, kemudian orang lain itu mengatakan itu sulit. Terlebih lagi, menjadi diri kita sendiri dan mencetak kepribadian kita ke dalam keseharian kita, itu lebih sulit lagi.
Tetapi adakah kalian tahu? Menjadi sulit itu justru lebih sulit.
Hihihi, dasar gue pemain kata, berusaha memainkan kata dan merangkainya menjadi seperti gue, *aneh*..
Menjadi sulit itu justru lebih sulit. Karena itu, janganlah menjadi sulit. Simpel kan?
Jangan menjadi sulit, itu artinya :
* jangan merusak pikiran kita dengan hal-hal yang menyulitkan dan sesungguhnya nggak penting
* jangan memikirkan keburukan diri kita dan menilai orang lain dari keburukannya
* jangan mengabaikan kebaikan diri kita. Kita mendapatkan *segala hal yang baik* itu melalui proses, dari usaha, jerih payah, serta pengurasan keringat kita. Jadi, janganlah menyia-nyiakan usaha kita itu hanya dengan sebuah kata, “Ah, gue biasa aja.”, “Seharusnya gue nggak menang. Gue nggak nyangka gue bisa menang.”, “Padahal gue nggak target untuk menang …. , tapi keberuntungan aja kali, ya?”, untuk kali tertentu, mungkin kalimat tersebut “boleh” dipergunakan, tapi untuk hidup kalian seterusnya, gue mohon, jangan sama sekali. Jangan begitu pesimistis menilai diri sendiri.
* jangan mengabaikan orang-orang yang ada di sisi kalian. Jangan mengabaikan orang yang sekarang berada di sebelah kalian atau di belakang kalian dan menemani kalian membaca ini, jangan mengabaikan orang-orang yang ada di rumah, yang ketika kalian pulang, akan menyapa kalian dengan senyum mereka, jangan mengabaikan orang-orang yang mengulurkan tangan kepada kalian ketika kalian dalam kesusahan. Jangan sama sekali.
* jangan mencoba berlari dari kenyataan. Hidup memang sulit, tetapi ketika kita tidak berani untuk menatap “kesulitan” hidup itu dan bergerak maju, maka hidup akan menjadi semakin sulit. Laluilah hidup kalian seperti air yang mengalir, alirkanlah kisah kalian dengan irama kalian sendiri, dengan sedikit percikan keunikan diri kalian.
* jangan mencoba melupakan masa lalu, karena tiap masa memiliki maknanya sendiri.
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